Connecting With Your Teens

Connecting With Your Teens

I remember the fun dates I used to plan with my kids when they were little: tea time at the American Girl store with my daughter, the annual mother-son dance, lunch dates, going to watch the latest Disney movie, picnics at the park, and taking my daughter to get her nails done for the first time, are among some of the many memories I treasure in my heart. It was so easy to plan things to do with them. They were always available, excitable, and more than willing to participate in whatever activities I planned. They didn’t have smartphones, TikTok…
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Feeling God’s Pleasure

Feeling God’s Pleasure

“The glory of God is man fully alive.” - Irenaeus I used to think bringing glory to God was something that could only be done in the context of ministry. Things like sharing a testimony, going on a mission trip, participating in service projects, persevering in adversity, worship, and so on. It had never occurred to me that I could bring glory to God by simply being me, and enjoying being who He created me to be. This made me think of the quote from olympian Eric Lidell, in the movie Chariots of Fire, when he says: “I believe God…
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Trust God and Enjoy the Party!

Trust God and Enjoy the Party!

Many years ago, we were invited to a little boy’s birthday party. When it was time to eat, the parents had a seat ready for the birthday boy somewhere in the middle of the table, however, he wanted to sit at the head of the table. I wonder if he knew the head of the table is considered to be the place of honor. I don’t know, he was kind of young to be thinking about that. But for whatever reason it was obvious that he was displeased with the place his parents assigned for him at the table. I…
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God Loves Your Kids More Than You Do

God Loves Your Kids More Than You Do

I remember tucking my daughter in bed one night, as I always did when she was little. She was wearing her Cinderella princess night-gown, and her favorite stuffed animals, Sheepy and Lamby, were securely nestled in her arms. She was chatting up a storm (as usual), and her eyes were sparking with joy and excitement as she shared whatever thoughts were going through her mind. I can still hear her little lisp, which was no match for her insatiable need to communicate all the things, all the time. I was gently stroking her hair when I suddenly became overwhelmed by…
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Equip and Empower Your Teens

Equip and Empower Your Teens

With Caleb heading into his Senior year and Mia starting High School this fall, I find myself with a new sense of urgency when it comes to teaching them ALL-THE-THINGS, but sometimes it feels like my words fall flat. Not only do my words seem to go in-one-ear and out-the-other, but I also come across as a nag: "Pick up your room. Don't stay up too late. Get off your phone. No ice-cream before (or instead of) dinner. You've been playing video games for too long. Clean up after yourself in the kitchen." I can see how, from their perspective,…
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Hearing God’s Voice – Ask Him a Question

Hearing God’s Voice – Ask Him a Question

"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you." Matt. 7:7 God loves to speak to us, and one of my favorite ways to tune into His voice is by asking Him questions. During my training as a Life Coach I was taught to not ask multiple questions in a row, or as they call it, "stack questions". Preferably, we should ask one question at a time to make it easier for the client to focus their attention on one thing, instead of having their mind go in…
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More Than Enough

More Than Enough

"And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of His glory in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19 I will forever be reminded of the Lord’s goodness by this picture. I love that He can use an ordinary bowl of left over noodles to speak to my heart. A long time ago, when my kids were still little, I brought home one order of pasta for them to share. My daughter's bowl had slightly more pasta than my son's. He took one look at her bowl and pointed out that she had more pasta than him. I told…
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In Your Father’s Arms

In Your Father’s Arms

"I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand." John 10:28 Kicking her little legs as hard as she could, and screaming so loud everyone in the restaurant could hear her, a furious toddler found herself unable to escape her father’s grasp. Her family and their friends were waiting to be seated during a busy Sunday lunch rush. I had been watching this curious little girl wander away from her family to go climb a bench in front of her. Her dad got her off the bench each time, but…
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5 Things to Remember on Valentine’s Day

5 Things to Remember on Valentine’s Day

ONE - The greatest love you’ll ever know, is the love of God. So whether you are happily married, married but lonely, or single, remember that no man will ever fully satisfy the deepest longings of your heart. Only God can do that. Take some time to dwell in His love for you by reading His word, spending time in worship, and praying. TWO - Love is not a feeling, love is an action. Even if you are not feeling all lovey-dovey towards your husband because of a disagreement or conflict, you can still take a step towards getting closer…
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How to Create a Quite Time Space for Your Kids

How to Create a Quite Time Space for Your Kids

Knowing how hard it has been for me to develop the habit of meeting with God daily, I want to do whatever I can to make it easier for my children to seek Him regularly.  When my kids were younger, I was inspired by the movie “War Room” to create a quiet time space for them in their closets. It wasn’t anything fancy, but it was a dedicated place for them to spend time with the Lord. The space encouraged them to read their Bibles or devotionals, write on their journals, and/or pray.  I remember a particular day in which…
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